How Great Leaders Turn Feedback into Growth
Why Receiving Feedback Feels So Hard
Let’s be real—hearing criticism stings. Even when it’s constructive, there’s a natural instinct to defend ourselves, explain why things are the way they are, or feel discouraged. However, embracing constructive criticism is a key step in personal and professional growth.
Here’s the truth:
The best leaders don’t just receive feedback—they actively seek it out.
They don’t fear it; they use it as fuel.
If you’re serious about becoming a stronger, more self-aware, and more impactful leader, feedback isn’t something to avoid—it’s something to embrace.
Why Great Leaders Ask for Feedback
Legendary leaders don’t wait for feedback to come knocking—they go after it.
They actively seek feedback from their teams, peers, and mentors. Asking, “How am I doing?” or “What can I do better?” demonstrates humility, self-awareness, and a commitment to improvement. It fosters a culture of openness and continuous learning.
A great example of this is James Rogers, former CEO of Duke Energy. He didn’t just assume he was doing a great job; he held regular "listening sessions" where managers could anonymously grade his leadership.
And guess what? Some of the ratings were below an A.
Instead of brushing it off, he leaned in. He reflected on the insights, made real changes, and in doing so, set an example of growth and accountability.
He admitted that he wouldn’t have noticed many issues without these sessions. They also helped him understand his performance, and his employees’ needs.
How to Receive Feedback Without Feeling Attacked
Try these five simple mindset shifts:
Listen Fully – Don’t interrupt. Hear the person out. Let them finish before you form a response.
Pause Before Reacting – Take a moment to process what’s being said before reacting.
Seek Clarification – Ask for specific examples to understand exactly what’s being said.
Acknowledge the Valid Points – Growth starts when you own areas for improvement.
Say ‘Thank You’ – Express appreciation for their honesty and willingness to help you grow. They didn’t have to give you that insight.
What If the Feedback Isn’t Constructive?
Not all feedback is helpful or well-intended. Here’s how to handle it:
Consider the Source – Is the feedback delivered with respect and a focus on improvement, or is it simply criticism?
Identify the Tone – Is the feedback delivered with respect and a focus on improvement, or is it simply criticism?
Look for Patterns – If multiple people share the same concern, it’s worth reflecting on.
Let Go of the Noise – Some criticism is unhelpful. If it’s purely negative without suggestions for improvement, don’t let it shake your confidence.
Turning Feedback into Action: What to Ask Yourself
The real power of feedback isn’t in receiving it—it’s in what you do with it. When you receive feedback, ask yourself:
Is this about me as a person, or about my leadership approach? (Separate your ego from the lesson.)
Does this align with areas I already know I need to work on? (If yes, it’s a sign to take action!)
What’s ONE small step I can take today to improve? (Growth happens in action, not just reflection.)
Successful Leaders Don’t Fear Feedback—They Thrive on It
Let’s get one thing straight—criticism isn’t failure. Stagnation is.
The most successful leaders aren’t the ones who avoid feedback; they’re the ones who demand it, dissect it, and use it as fuel to level up.
Growth is uncomfortable. It challenges your ego, pushes your limits, and forces you to face what you’d rather ignore. But here’s the truth—your next breakthrough as a leader lies in the feedback you’re willing to hear today.
So step up. Seek the tough conversations. Absorb the lessons. Apply them. Because real leaders aren’t made in their comfort zones—they’re forged in the fire of continuous improvement.
Keep leading. Keep evolving. Keep raising the bar.
Put This into Practice!
Your challenge this week: Ask three people—a team member, a peer, and a mentor—this question:
💬 “What’s one thing I could do to improve as a leader?”
Then, just listen. No justifications, no defenses—just take it in.
MSE Spotlight: Francisca’s Delights – A Recipe for Success Through Feedback & Growth
Every successful business starts with a leap of faith, and for Francisca, that leap began with one piece of cheese and 2kg of flour.
During the uncertainty of the Covid-19 pandemic, as a single parent facing unemployment, she did what so many great entrepreneurs do—she looked at what she had and made something incredible from it. Her first-ever “cheese bread” was born not from a business plan, but from necessity, prayer, and a willingness to try.
But here’s the real turning point: she listened.
A friend tasted her bread, was blown away, and encouraged her to sell it.
She didn’t dismiss the suggestion—she took the feedback and acted on it.
She got a spot at the farmers’ market, then into West Bees Supermarket in Diego Martin.
Instead of staying comfortable, she sought guidance from those ahead of her, enrolled in business programs, and actively networked to sharpen her skills. She didn’t just bake—she built a brand.
The Lesson? Feedback Fuels Growth
Francisca’s story is proof that listening to feedback and acting on it can open doors you never imagined. From a home kitchen to supermarket shelves, her journey is one of resilience, adaptability, and embracing every lesson along the way.
Today, she continues to refine her business, take advice from mentors, and prepare for expansion into more supermarkets across Trinidad and Tobago.
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💡 Reflect on your own growth: What feedback have you received that could take your business or leadership to the next level?
Like Francisca, don’t just hear feedback—embrace it, act on it, and use it to grow. 🚀
Courageously,
Amoy